Dr. Gilda Carle (Ph.D.) is a Relationship Expert, Media Personality, Author, Professor, Columnist, and Management Consultant. She has been MTV Online's Love Doc, and Spokesperson for Harlequin Books, Hallmark Cards, Galderma Pharmaceuticals, and Match.com. She is also Match.com's weekly Suddenly Single advice columnist, which appears on MSN.com's Dating & Personals page.
DISCOVER THE TRUTHS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT LOVE
ARE YOU SUFFERING NOW?
NEWS FLASH!!
You can feel better, respond calmly and wisely, and enhance the
outcome of your relationship and your life--NOW!
"America's Favorite Relationship Expert"
--American Media, Inc.
"In the years Dr. Gilda Carle counseled guests on my show, her practical advice and vibrant personality endeared her to millions of viewers. She's the best in the business."
--Sally Jessy Raphael
Howard Stern: "I've seen you on TV. You seem to be very bright."
Robin Quivers: "And you always give good advice on these talk shows I've seen you on."
--Howard Stern Show
Most people take their mate's cheating personally by wondering what THEY did wrong. They ask, "Why am I no longer desirable?" And they allow rejection to lower their self-esteem. When they contact me, most betrayed people say they "don't know what to do." THIS PROGRAM SHOWS YOU WHAT TO DO -- AND HOW TO WIN WHEN YOU DO IT!
If you're suffering, and you blame yourself for something, anything, or everything, STOP! Even Hollywood beauties and heartthrobs are betrayed. Uma Thurman had no idea her husband, Ethan Hawke, was bonking their babysitter. They divorced, but the cheaters remained entwined, unmarried, and pregnant - which Uma must face forever, since she has children with Hawke. Valerie Bertanelli admitted she cheated on her hot rocker, Eddie Van Halen, during their marriage, despite his star appeal and their red carpet life. These are just two gorgeous and desirable celebs who were cheated on by those who allegedly loved them. There are countless more.
BUT . . ."Dr. Gilda is TV's #1 talk-show therapist; hotter than the Sahara; part philosopher and part stand-up comic"
--Gannett Newspapers
Nobody wants a relationship derailment. That's why we stay stuck in unhappiness. When I was getting divorced, I had a serious car accident. A few years later, when I ended an engagement, I had another one. In both cases, I was the breakup initiator.
Someone re-named me "GUILTA" for all the suffering I sustained during my splits!! Research shows that the person who ends a romance may suffer MORE than the person s/he is leaving. But negative feelings lead to negative behavior - and in my case, they occurred behind the wheel - not a recommended release for rage.
Gilda-Gram:
Broken hearts invoke broken thinking and broken behavior - but they don't have to.
INTRODUCING:
HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS
4 Volumes
Volume 1. WHY CHEATERS KEEP CHEATING
Volume 2. THE ONE YOU LOVE IS THE ONE YOU'LL LEAVE
Volume 3. HOW TO COPE WITH THE CHEATER YOU LOVE
Volume 4. TO MEND OR TO END?
4 Volumes, 400+ pages include: Dr. Gilda's renowned Gilda-Grams; client stories; real e-mails sent to her from real people, with her in-you-face responses; examples of relationship hopping and relationship coping from Hollywood, the tabloids, and real folks; quizzes; self-assessments; exercises; and productive next steps.
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
Thank you for writing HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS. What an eye-opener! I must tell you, every time I read something you write, I learn so much about myself. Good and Bad! But this one really changed my life. I'm back together with my husband, and our marriage is stronger than ever, ALL thanks to you!"
--Marilyn Rodgers, New York
"Dr. Gilda, I made more progress with HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS than I did in 8 years of therapy!"
--Virginia Matlock, Tennessee
Excerpt from
HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS
by
Dr. Gilda Carle
Volume 1: Why Cheaters Keep Cheating
Early one morning in New York, I received calls from In Touch Magazine, People, Entertainment Tonight, Access Hollywood, Vogue Brazil, Cosmo Taiwan, Elle Hong Kong and tons of other media outlets throughout the world. Since I'm a recognizable media personality, this is nothing new for me in any typical day. However, on this day, unbeknownst to me, the following piece had been written in The Sunday Express, a British publication:
Sunday Express, Sienna Miller Seeks Shrink Over Law's 'Cheataholism'!, August 8, 2005, Hollywood actress Sienna Miller has reportedly sought advice from a top relationship psychotherapist over her wrecked relationship with estranged fiancé Jude Law. According to sources, Miller has consulted New York academic Dr. Gilda Carle over her lover's affair with his children's nanny Daisy Wright, and wants to find out reasons behind his infidelity. "Dr. Gilda has been talking to Sienna about what she has coined the 'cheataholic' and examining the causes for rampant infidelity," a source told the Sunday Express.
My initial response to this story was shock. I would never discuss who seeks counsel from me, or whom I service. Even my unsolicited Testimonials on my web site, with real names of real people, are posted only after I have been granted permission from the writers. So where did this leak come from?? The Brits even knew enough to call me an "academic," and I am indeed a college professor, so they obviously did their homework. Although 75% of my clientele consists of high profile people, never before has anything so revealing about any possible (or impossible) clients hit the press. While I'm forever interviewed about the behaviors of celebrities for tabloids, magazines, and entertainment shows, I never discuss whom I treat or whom I know.
By the next day, the Jude Law/Sienna Miller story hit Page Six of the New York Post, the most revered gossip column in the world. That night, . . .
(continued in Volume 1: Why Cheaters Keep Cheating)
Singles and marrieds both ache over betrayal. The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy warns that betrayed spouses can suffer from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)!
The Governor of New York had to leave office in disgrace because he had been a repeat procurer of prostitution businesses. Ironically, this hard-nosed official prosecuted the very businesses he patronized. During his resignation speech, his wife stood beside him, looking shell-shocked and wooden. (PTSD?)
CHEATING IS EPIDEMIC, BUT . . .
Gilda-Gram:
The issue you perceive is never the real issue.
The issue of the Governor's hookers was not the real issue. The real issue was that his marriage had been disintegrating - and neither partner confronted this truth.
Gilda-Gram:
When issues are not handled, they eventually explode.
Shockingly, within JUST HOURS of the swearing in of the Governor's replacement, the new Governor also made a carnal confession: he had had extramarital affairs "years earlier," during "a rough patch" in his marriage. He said he was "jealous" of the affair his wife was having while they were estranged. She solemnly stood beside him (PTSD?), as he asserted that their marriage was solid now, thanks to counseling. However, nanoseconds later, other women emerged, one by one, claiming he had affairs with them, too, in more recent times!
"Your husband's sleeping, and you look across the bed and think, "Do I really know this person?," said a human resources consultant ..., married for 17 years."
--The New York Times
"Some folks face relationship stress head-on, while others seek refuse, bed-on. Both options bring pain, but the latter can leave scars."
- Dr. Gilda
For years, Dr. Gilda has been dispensing relationship advice in the media, and in her college courses, her books, her motivational speeches, and her columns. NOW, for the first time ever, you can get her wisdom in a 4-Volume E-Program download -- and receive 15 Skill-Builder Bonuses** too!
**Skill-Builder Bonuses include:
Bonus #1: Is Communicating with the Opposite Sex Cheating?
Bonus #2: Humor Is Sexy
Bonus #4: Partner Expectations Quiz
Bonus #7: 25 Strategic Questions about Your Future
Bonus #11: Taming the Toxicity
Bonus #12: The Case for Confrontation, and more, more, more . . .
DO YOU KNOW YOUR MATE'S CHEAT POTENTIAL?
When the wife of the former New York Governor watched intern-loving Bill Clinton humiliate his wife, she told friends, "That would never be me. I'd be gone." But 10 years later, she was experiencing her own spousal humiliation. They are still a couple.
4 FACTS ABOUT CHEATING
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS changed my life! I had put up with my cheating husband for 12 long years because, as I realize now, I was afraid to leave and start a life on my own. I was in constant pain, but unable to move on. But your program got me to see the light. It helped me become unafraid of being independent. Using your methods, I calmly and strongly confronted him about my feelings. I assumed he would not care, but he actually broke down. That was the beginning of a new life for both of us. We have just renewed our vows, and I have your Program to thank for all of it!"
--Doris Tremain, Massachusetts
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HOW WOULD YOU REACT?
Dear Dr. Gilda,
My divorce is almost final. My wife had an affair and has been living with the man, but she has been calling and asking me if there is any hope for us. We have a three-year-old son who lives with me. Her boyfriend discovered she's been calling me. She told him she is still in love with me and that she wants to make our family work. I'm scared to jump back in because I don't trust her now. Our final divorce hearing is coming up. Do I give her a second chance, or do I proceed with the divorce and see what happens after that?
Wanting to Do the Right Thing
Dear Wanting to Do the Right Thing,
Okay, let me get this straight. Honey cheated on you with him, and now she's cheating on him with you!! Helllooooo!!! Your wife is a serial betrayer, or what I call a "cheataholic"!!
It's natural to distrust her now. To make matters more painful, she's been living with the man she left you for. So I have a few concerns about your future with this "lady":
Don't consider a makeup from your breakup before you get counseling. This is your life - and your three-year-old child is watching! I suggest you proceed with the following:
The cheater is begging, so you have all the power now. As my Gilda-Gram says, "Take time to breathe. The tortoise in you can always catch up with the hare." Besides, the more you mull over your choices, the more anxious to return to you your wife will be. That's just human nature! But as flattered as you are about her new alleged heat for you, don't let passion blind you. This is a crucial decision. Take your time to make it the right one FOR YOU.
--Adapted from Dr. Gilda's Match.com's weekly Suddenly Single
column, on MSN.com's Dating & Personals page
BEWARE!
Sharpen Your Cheater Awareness NOW
Or
ATTRACT A CHEATER AGAIN!!
During a nationally syndicated daytime TV talk show, I was counseling a woman who had just discovered her plumber husband had been "plumbing" their neighbor. When she heard the news, she cried hysterically. But through her sobs, she was quick to dismiss his behavior with the rationalization, "Well, all men cheat."
Gilda-Gram:
We always get what we believe we deserve.
Because of this woman's belief about "all men," she unconsciously manifested a cheater as a partner. Talk about the Law of Attraction!! Without realizing it, or consciously planning it, she had always anticipated that any mate she had would bring her this kind of grief. So her husband became her self-fulfilling prophecy. He was the only kind of man she felt worthy of attracting.
"Busiest television therapist in the business; resembles a young Lucille Ball"
--The New York Times
GIVES YOU 5 LOVING BOOSTS!
You will:
WHO IS DR. GILDA?
You've seen her on TV, heard her on radio, and read her comments in newspapers and magazines. She has been dispensing relationship advice for over 20 years, guiding personal relationships at home and professional relationships at work. She advises singles, marrieds, and in-betweens. She coaches executives, celebrities, politicians, newsmakers, and people from different walks of life. She writes books and columns, and, as a management consultant, delivers motivational speeches and does coaching for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and schools. She is a professor of psychology, business, and communications. She has been MTV Online's Love Doc, and Spokesperson for Harlequin Books, Hallmark Cards, Galderma Pharmaceuticals, and Match.com. She is Match.com's weekly Suddenly Single advice columnist, which appears on MSN.com's Dating & Personals page.
DR. GILDA'S PLATFORM: Every people problem is the result of a relationship issue. Every relationship issue is due to broken boundaries. And every broken boundary is the consequence of shaky empowerment. To get a relationship back on track, or even to begin a new and thriving one, acknowledge and project your personal power. Empowered people sustain successful, lasting mergers in love and at work.
Why Did DR. GILDA Write
In one sentence: PEOPLE KEPT ASKING HER TO!
Dr. Gilda's best-selling book, "Don't Bet on the Prince! How to Have the Man You Want by Betting on Yourself" is now a classic. She uses it as a text in her college classes, it has been translated into many languages throughout the world, it was a test question on "JEOPARDY!," and it is read by both women and men. "The Prince" can be a person, a job, a company, a family, an industry, the economy, or anything or anyone we put faith in. Of course, there is no Prince! There is ONLY ONE PERSON on whom you can bet - and that is YOU! All the acclaim she received for "Don't Bet on the Prince!" inspired her to write HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS:
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
I felt like I needed an oxygen mask as I began to complete the Self-Assessments in Don't Bet on the Prince! Why was it necessary for me to go through so much heartache for so many years?
I haven't put your book down. It is the last thing I read before I close my eyes at night. What I am learning is that I and only I must decide what is best for me.
I am getting better every day. Once again, I thank you for all you've wished for me. God has richly blessed you. Stay healthy and well."
Annie Samson
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
Reading Don't Bet on the Prince! has reinforced many truths about living life without feeling guilty for not pleasing others.
Men should also read your book, as it is not intended for women only. I have finished it, and have passed it on to my daughter, who is 30 years old, in an abusive relationship, and is in dire need of reading it. I know she will benefit from it, and she will begin to bet on herself.
Take care, God Bless, and PLEASE WRITE ANOTHER BOOK!"
Rose Diaz
DR. GILDA DID MORE THAN WRITE "ANOTHER" BOOK; SHE WROTE FOUR!!
4 VOLUMES COMPRISE HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS.
Dr. Gilda Carle is an absolute wonder. Whether she is successful by hypnotizing us into believing that we are terrific, or she actually teaches us how to be terrific, is a mystery I will never unravel.
-- J. R. Goldstein, M.D., New Jersey State Commissioner of Health
LIFE-CHANGING BENEFITS
-- FOR NOW AND FOR YOUR FUTURE
STOP YOUR SUFFERING IMMEDIATELY!
FACE THE FACTS! You'll never change your partner -- UNLESS s/he wants to change. And nobody wants to change -- until s/he hits ROCK BOTTOM -- and sees change as a life necessity!
Well-known cad, Geraldo Rivera, changed his ways after he finally figured out the whole fidelity thing. He said that when he had that "adventure addiction," he always wondered where he could be that would make him feel better than where he was. He recognized, at last, that nothing was better than where he was already. I have worked with Geraldo on television over the years. His journey to fidelity entailed 5 wives, 5 children, tremendous pain, and splintered relationships before he reached his epiphany. DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!!
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
I just finished reading HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS. It was magnificent! It kicked me in the pants to stop being the victim to my cheating wife. Thank you! You saved my marriage and my life."
--Robert Vilardi, Washington
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
Thank you for all you did for my boyfriend and me with HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS. You always make us feel better about ourselves."
--Ellie McQuaid, Georgia
At some point, we all end up at a crossroads. Right now, you probably don't know what to do. It's the goal you never start that takes the longest. Good for you for having the courage to finally move toward that goal.
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
I am honored and blessed to know you. It's incredible how, in just a couple of hours with your great book, one can see a more complete photo of oneself.
Thanks!"
--Michael J. Williams, New York
CHECK THE TRAITS YOU DESERVE IN A MATE
| ✓ | 1. Compassionate communication |
| ✓ | 2. Healthy disagreement without anger |
| ✓ | 3. Humor |
| ✓ | 4. Intimacy |
| ✓ | 5. Honesty without fear |
| ✓ | 6. Bonded friendship |
| ✓ | 7. Trust |
| ✓ | 8. Respect |
| ✓ | 9. Random acts of kindness |
| ✓ | 10. Fidelity in every way |
YOU CAN HAVE ALL THESE TRAITS IN YOUR MATE!
PLOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON MY BETRAYAL GRID
-- AND GET THE FIDELITY YOU SEEK!
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
You were IN MY FACE with "HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE!" You dispelled the 'rational lies' I told myself -- which got me into trouble. This infidelity-buster was a lifesaver! Thank you so much!!!!"
--Jerri Wachler, New Jersey
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
I read every page of your book, "Don't Bet on the Prince!" Actually, I devoured it. Thank you for your wonderful insights. I love your work, and your sound and concrete relationship guidance. I couldn't wait to also devour your HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS program. YOU DID IT AGAIN! And it did me a world of good.
I am now in a respectful relationship with a man who treats me with honor. We are truly enjoying the healthiest relationship of our lives. Thank you, Dr. Gilda!"
--One Happy Woman, California
Dr. Gilda Carle elevates the self-esteem of everyone from CEOs to street people . . . cheerleader for our deepest selves . . . facilitator of change
--Philadelphia Inquirer
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
Thanks to you, I removed myself from an abusive marriage, something I continued to think was the norm, and something I continued to make excuses for. I have learned to love myself so much that I would never return to such a situation. This has truly been life changing! Be Blessed."
--Sharon Rivers, New York
"HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS is like being in class with Dr. Gilda, or being at one of her motivational speeches. I hear her voice in every word I read!!"
--Roberta McCall, New York
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
I have to thank you! I have been in many heart breaking and abusive relationships, and have been very lonely. My boyfriend didn't return the feelings I had, and I didn't want to tell him how I felt. But when I read your 5-Step ConFRONTation Technique in HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS, I knew I had to take control. I went through the 5 steps, letting him finally know I would no longer be a party to his cheating. He was stunned. HE HEARD ME!
Your ConFRONTation Technique saved my life. I could have continued this destructive affair for years if I hadn't come face-to-face with what I had to do. THANK YOU!!!"
--A New Person, Wisconsin
Female Tony Robbins with a doctorate
--Bloomberg Financial News
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
I'm back at the beginning now, the same person, only better. Thank you for giving me back to me. I x'ed the cheater out of my life! HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS is the best gift I ever gave myself."
--Joanna Samuelsohn, Ontario
The warmth and sincere concerns from this professor are real and are genuinely appreciated by her students. Far more than communications classes, hers are truly self-improvement workshops. I call Dr. Gilda "Mother Teresa with lipstick and The Wall Street Journal."
--Wayne Cioffari, Dean, Mercy College School of Business, New York
"Hi Dr. Gilda,
People talk about you in comparison to Mother Teresa, and I definitely agree. You are a stranger, yet you have given me more love and awareness for myself than most people I have known during my whole life. Now, with your help, I am able to move on. I love you for showing me how to love me.
Thanks Angel Dr. Gilda!"
--Frederick D. Fulford Jr., New York
"Dear Dr. Gilda,
WOW! What an eye-opener!! HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS brought me face-to-face with things I wanted to bury, but which were burying ME!! I finally left my cheating husband. You gave me the courage to get a life! THANK YOU!!!"
--Carrie Roberts, California
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